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November 2009 
Because love is no mistake
Posted on Feb 8th, 2008
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Desafinada
Desafinada
The biggest mistake what people make in love is when they need to love.
They usually end up finding someone, because they need to. Then, as time progresses that it wasn't love, but a need, and that the person they loved isn't just the same.
The truth is that they are just the same.But you didn't see them well enough, because you NEEDED to love at that time.So much that you didn't see all of what you loved.And love turned out to be a mistake.
Love only when you want to, not when you need to.
Because when you want to love someone, you see all of them.And you come to love all of them.
Then you won't have any have any heartbreaks.And you'll be able to find someone you really love.Even if they turn out to not love you.
And only loving becomes a joy.
P.S:But only if you really want to love someone and want nothing else.
They usually end up finding someone, because they need to. Then, as time progresses that it wasn't love, but a need, and that the person they loved isn't just the same.
The truth is that they are just the same.But you didn't see them well enough, because you NEEDED to love at that time.So much that you didn't see all of what you loved.And love turned out to be a mistake.
Love only when you want to, not when you need to.
Because when you want to love someone, you see all of them.And you come to love all of them.
Then you won't have any have any heartbreaks.And you'll be able to find someone you really love.Even if they turn out to not love you.
And only loving becomes a joy.
P.S:But only if you really want to love someone and want nothing else.
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It can happen that someone would so want to love another, but deep down they know they don't need it. xx
Exactly…
Love is not a neccessity..it's a luxury.
Every time I read what you write it soothes my soul. Here also.. but now when i read it for the third time i think .. people may be looking for love, but.. but they cannot really find it. are they in control? It finds them. They may find relationships, substitution of love, but LOVe is an unplanned AdVENTURE! And this is what i love about it…and this unplanned adventure can last a lifetime and it changes, it evolves.. and if we are lucky to love the one person for our whole life - it NEVER STOPS to be an Adventure. it is out of control, with no guaranties.
I agree. But we could quietly love more than one person. It depends by meaning we give to the idea of 'love'.
yeees, becuase what happens to us does not matter as much as what meaning we apply to it. Willy why did you use a phrase”love quietly”? ? ?
I use adverb 'quietly' to emphasize the normality of action to love more than one person.
I've always thought about this.And wondered how people are able to love more than one person.When I could never do this.And never wanted to, never felt like.
But nobody gives an answer.
Love finds us, and then we want it.
But this happened(and is still happening), just once to me.